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A friend of mine recently came out to me as bisexual. I am thrilled they told me, but I am not sure how I am supposed to be supportive. any advice is appreciated!

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amoke has no avatar

amoke says:

A great way to be supportive is just to be open and non-judgmental about what your friend has to say about being bi. I think it's also really important to ask questions if you have them, but make sure you check in with your friend about what they're comfortable with. I think with a friend who first comes out, this is the biggest thing you can do to be supportive. Hope that helped.

Posted on Jan 26, 2010

Wyoming has no avatar

Wyoming says:

I would suggest that you ask your friend what s/he might need/want from you. If you haven't already, I would also suggest that you consider telling your friend why you are so thrilled that s/he confided in you (I am guessing that it has to do with how much this person trusts you and that you two have a good relationship). Also, please remember that sexuality is just one part of who we are. You sound like a great friend to have!

Posted on Jan 28, 2010

cloud has no avatar

cloud says:

Thanks! this is all really helpful. I have told him how excited I am, and it seems like he just wants to talk freely about his relationships! (I can't imagine feeling like I have to hide something so big!)

Posted on Jan 29, 2010

Ann8390 has no avatar

Ann8390 says:

Simple but easy: DON'T CHANGE HOW YOU ACT AROUND THEM! Yeah, be open to talking about it, but don't all of a sudden change everything about your relationship. They'll regret opening up to you if you do.

Posted on Feb 02, 2010

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